Why is it when people are struggling they have to find others to blame? That does not resolve anything it only creates a bigger problem than the one your dealing with. Saying sorry doesn’t mean it was your fault it just means you accept your responsibility in the matter. Many minor problems end up in war due to miscommunication. Everyone is different. Just because I cry when I’m emotional does not mean I am soft and if I didn’t cry it wouldn’t mean I’m hard. Just as we deal with emotions in a different manor struggling is the same.
Admit your struggling & get some help
Just because your not perfect at everything that does not give you the right to give up on your future self. Be confident, weigh out the consequences of your actions, always smile when you make eye contact, support your vision and straighten your path. If you can not help yourself then you should ask someone to help you. People are out in the world craving to help others succeed believe it or not, everybody isn’t all bad. Here’s the thing, a closed mouth won’t get fed and the same goes for your closed mouth. How will you ever get fed by being afraid to ask for help. Asking for help is a strength many do not process, it means you refuse to give up no matter what others think. Kids are constantly asking questions no matter how annoying we tell them they are being. I bet the smartest kids never stop asking questions…
Struggle in silence & nobody will know where to set booby traps…
Some people air all their business out on social media as if the people care. The platform is for entertainment purposes only. When people say “pray for me” I always wonder if an enemy saw the post and prayed in the opposite path of healing. Words have power which is why in my home we never use the word “hate.” My point is, not everybody is your friend, on your team, or rooting for your come up. Tough times and tough situations usually reveal these people. Some people come around for a good time and when your money is gone, so are they. Beware the world is full of leeches & family can be the worst ones.
Admit it & move On…
Time to admit your struggles. First find 3 things your struggling with using my worksheet. Write down all 3. Next find 3 solutions to those problems by using my workbook. Read through it and you can use my advice to overcome your current struggles.
A gift of love, encouragement, & support to each and everyone reading this. Endure until the end & you shall save yourself…
Do not allow what is going on in the world to scare you. Turn off the t.v., do a social media cleanse for 1 week just to allow your thoughts to rest.
No FB, Twitter, Instagram, snapchat, TikTok, etc.
Tell your family & friends you don’t want to talk about the virus, the end times signs, the president, ect.
Only answer important phone calls
No news channels
You can not control any of it so control yourself. Control your emotions. Control your surroundings. Control the image you see all around the world that keeps replaying in your mind. Replace those images with the change you want to see in this world. Guess what, that starts with you.
Change is a struggle but so is the lack of love & respect many people lack…
Package yourself up like the prize you are and recieve every opportunity to glow above all the days prior to today. Receive the gift of relaxation, abundant energy, & restful sleep. Allow your positivity to overcome all the negative vibes you been smothered by lately. Turn off the news, read a mind blowing book. Start your own business online, create an invention to make others lives easier during these times, write down a list of monthly goals. Take a Enjoy a Daily Strugglies “Relax Bath” to ease your fears, sooth your muscles, and rock your worries to rest. Ever used essential oils? Now is a perfect time to check out my blog post “Aromatherapy” a different kinda drug…
I can teach you how to combat those pesky, annoying, stressful vibes that been pecking at your inner soul. We all know misery loves company so never be afraid to eat alone. Rid negative energy from around you! Create a playlist of music to devote to every mood that represents your life.
Let us try a mirror exercise…
Go in front of a mirror while reading this.
Nobody is watching so strip yourself of the old you and let it blow away in the gusty unatural wind. Change is easy when your ready but what is a challenge some may say quite difficult to do?? Giving up on you…
Turn your back on toxicity, sell all the junk you never use, throw out all the nasty trash, bottle up the lies and comitte yourself to telling the truth.
One day at a time it’s you in the lead, seek & you shall find that you are all you will ever truly need!! Just trying to stunt on the old struggle queen…
Hi my name is Shamara and I am addicted to feeling good using a Diffuser & essential oils nice to meet you. Xoxo
So smells are my new thing and I thought I would share because sharing means caring, right? Essential oils are absolutely soul cleansing for those with built up stress, anxiety, pain, dealing with negative people or environments & so on…just let it go my friend!! My very first experience I was hooked #onehellofadrug
Prescribed pills never made me feel this great, plus the side effects were all positive ones.
Falling asleep naturally
More patience with my kids
Ability to stay positive
Better decision making abilities
Less need for prescription meds
So as I was saying what do you have to loose?
Let me testify right here and now…hop scotch butterscotch makes me hungry but it also satisfies my sweet tooth I struggle with. Peppermint oil helps with multiple levels of pain. Rose oil regulates my skin and gets rid of blotches if you know what I mean it is also a great astringent for all skin types. Rosemary oil is another one I use for pain such ad headaches. Black pepper would be another pain reliever but for things like broken bones.
Tea tree oil cleared up my acne in only a couple days and it’s a natural at destroying bacteria. Pink grapefruit oil along with cinnamon oil helped me loose inches around my abdomen. Slim oil boosted my metabolism rather quickly. Orange and eucalyptus oil give me my morning pick me up like coffee but without the jitters. I also recently started making my own combination blends & I do have a favorite blend I like to call liquid xanax. I use it the most, especially over the last 6 months we have become very close, literally!! I don’t leave home without that or my mask!
I have a blend that cures cold & flu, allergies, asthma attacks, ect. A blend for rashes, to heal wounds, pinkeye, ect. I create my own lotions and perfumes using essential oils. I use oils in my laundry and in my cleaning supplies. I sprinkle oil on my rug and it helps keep my dog calm. Lavender cured my insomnia and my exzema as well as helped my hair grow. Multiple essential oils benefit the aging process and get rid of greys. Lemon oil faded my dark spots on my face beautifully. I can go on and it’s only been 2 years since aromatherapy changed my entire life! I got my Associates Degree in essential oil mixology because I love it so much!
Purchase a Diffuser for every room in your home…
Your home should be your sanctuary and if it’s not make it one!! Everyone needs a place to feel calm and relaxed. Ever been to a spa and didn’t want to leave, like ever?? That’s how my home is. lol As soon as you walk in my door the relaxing fragrance of lavender hits you were it feels good. I purchased 4 of my diffusers from Amazon and one from Scentsy. My Scentsy one was over $100 and works just the same as my affordable Amazon ones. My kids have fun ones in their rooms and they love playing with fragrances, they too get stressed.
I will give you a list of 13 symptoms negative energy causes and yes it is contagious if your around it long enough!
Difficulty breathing, S.O.B.
Feeling off or cloudy headed
Cold and flu type symptoms
We all know people who go around zapping positive energy from others…
Have you ever been having the best day ever and someone just comes along and ruins it as soon as you see them? They just look like attitude in the dictionary without the picture! Ugh!!!
Many people who we love and allow in our lives drain us and we don’t even realize it. Since this corona virus I have had to be in my home with negative energy people surrounding me. My room is my sanctuary so I purchased a rock from Amazon that is known for clearing out negative energies. Of course I researched it and discovered I was not alone in my feelings.
I will admit I am new to this so I honestly purchased it because I figured what will it hurt and it went with my room decor “bonus.”
I noticed my health started to suffer the consequences…
With that being said I was stressed out, my insomnia was out of control, everyone was complaining, I was short on food, I had to home school my kids, shall I continue? Believe me ya’ll don’t want my problems and I don’t want yours. I feel like everyone should keep negative energy and comments to themselves.
What I am trying to say is…
Sometimes you have to live in situations that hurt you and if you are one of these people at least try to do things that will help benefit your mental state. I will list some examples for you.
Purchase a essential oil diffuser
Get daily exercise
Take a relaxing bath with essential oils and epsom salt
Talk to some one who will listen
Take a walk with a friend “girl talk”
Get a pen pal you can tell everything to and will never meet lol
Read the bible if your religious or spiritual
Find a book you can get lost in and get lost
Join a group that is related to your struggles so you know your not alone
Purchase a energy generator for your home
Clean your home, rid it of clutter
Go camping and become one with nature
Create a playlist of songs that make your mood better
Go on you tube and find calming music, now take a nap
Write a letter to someone you cant stand but never mail it
Go in a closet and scream…it really helps
Enjoy a movie night with your family…positive vibes invites only
Go on a walk paying special attention to nature (the sounds, the animals, take nice deep breaths)
Take an online class to feed your brain knowledge “if you don’t use it you’ll loose it”
Create a Pinterest account and browse helpful solutions for your problem
Create a list of positive affirmations you can tell yourself upon waking and every night
Help people in need it just does something to the spirit
Create a list of things you want to change in your life
Create a goal list and give yourself realistic times to complete each goal
Are you giving off negative energy??!
Sometimes we are the problem and don’t even realize it. I was raised with negative people and it rubbed off on me. I was such a happy upbeat person who loved to laugh but when around certain ones I became Debby Downer real fast. One day a close friend of mine pointed it out and I realized I had work to do! Here are some examples of negativity disease & people just carry it with them spreading it everywhere.
People who work late normally hate it so they give off negative energy
People who complain about any and everything
People who exhibit jealous traits
People quick to anger
People with complicated living arrangements
People on drugs or those who drink alcohol
People who compare themselves to others
People with chaotic schedules
People diagnosed with depression
People who tend to be highly emotional
People with multiple kids and no real help
People who absolutely hate their jobs
People who don’t clean their homes
People who live on social media
People who tend to stay in doors and don’t get natural Vitamin D
People who brag about helping others
People who get upset when you tell them to pray
People who have excuses for everything wrong they do
People who play the blame game and can never admit fault
People who think they are superior to others
If I rang a “Ding” “Ding” bell continue reading…
As you can see these people are all around us. If you have people like this anywhere but in your home avoid them at all cost. Now if these people live with you, you may want to think about changing up your living situation real soon. I understand you have love for these types of people but you can love lions, tigers, and bears yet understand you shouldn’t bring them into your home. In some cases the people that hurt you the worst are your kids, no worries they are your kids. You can retrain them to be positive by allowing it to reflect in your daily life. Negativity can be reversed it is all learned behavior. Only you are in control of your destiny and happiness. You may not begin your story but you do have a choice to create your own ending.
Back to the topic at hand…
Check out the Energy Generator I purchased off Amazon that helped me become a believer! I keep it in my bedroom and nobody is really allowed to hang out in there but me and my man. You can rest assured if someone brings in their negative energy this stone will absorb it!!
Should you decide to make a purchase from Amazon I will receive a small commission at no cost to you at all, thank you so much for your support and please let me know how it works for you. I love success and healing stories…xoxo
Orgone pyramid helps to neutralize electronic smog (EMF) from cell phones, cell phone towers, wi-fi, computers and electronic devices that you expose yourself to on a daily basis.The interaction of organic resin and inorganic metal creates orgone.
Healing Chakra condensed metal matrix that includes a combination of quartz crystal and other energy clearing crystals and stones that absorb negative energies and transmutes them into positive forces that stimulate the body to heal itself.
The crystals and stones have been charged with positive intentions prior to casting. They have also been smudged with energy clearing white sage. Smudging is an ancient Native American tradition used to cleanse negative energy. The Orgonite are infused with harmonic tones during the curing process that help balance the body’s natural frequency.
Large amounts of positive energy. By simply holding or being near these devices you will feel large amounts of positive energy.
Wherever you place the orgonite they keep the air and life force in the home clean and positive. Besides this is a great centerpiece for a spa, yoga studio, float center, business or home environment. Although They can be placed anywhere you want to clear ambient energy!