Love thyself offensively….


A gift of love, encouragement, & support to each and everyone reading this. Endure until the end & you shall save yourself…

Do not allow what is going on in the world to scare you. Turn off the t.v., do a social media cleanse for 1 week just to allow your thoughts to rest.

  • No FB, Twitter, Instagram, snapchat, TikTok, etc.
  • Tell your family & friends you don’t want to talk about the virus, the end times signs, the president, ect.
  • Only answer important phone calls
  • No news channels

You can not control any of it so control yourself. Control your emotions. Control your surroundings. Control the image you see all around the world that keeps replaying in your mind. Replace those images with the change you want to see in this world. Guess what, that starts with you.

Change is a struggle but so is the lack of love & respect many people lack…

Package yourself up like the prize you are and recieve every opportunity to glow above all the days prior to today. Receive the gift of relaxation, abundant energy, & restful sleep. Allow your positivity to overcome all the negative vibes you been smothered by lately. Turn off the news, read a mind blowing book. Start your own business online, create an invention to make others lives easier during these times, write down a list of monthly goals. Take a Enjoy a Daily Strugglies “Relax Bath” to ease your fears, sooth your muscles, and rock your worries to rest. Ever used essential oils? Now is a perfect time to check out my blog post “Aromatherapy” a different kinda drug…

I can teach you how to combat those pesky, annoying, stressful vibes that been pecking at your inner soul. We all know misery loves company so never be afraid to eat alone. Rid negative energy from around you! Create a playlist of music to devote to every mood that represents your life.

Let us try a mirror exercise…

Go in front of a mirror while reading this.

Nobody is watching so strip yourself of the old you and let it blow away in the gusty unatural wind. Change is easy when your ready but what is a challenge some may say quite difficult to do?? Giving up on you…

Turn your back on toxicity, sell all the junk you never use, throw out all the nasty trash, bottle up the lies and comitte yourself to telling the truth.

One day at a time it’s you in the lead, seek & you shall find that you are all you will ever truly need!! Just trying to stunt on the old struggle queen…

Heal the mind, body, & soul♥️

Fasting reboots the body to “factory Settings”

Nobodies Perfect but I’m perfect for me…



Dissecting the Struggle


Not all of us were raised with love being the main focus in our parents lives. Many performed selfish acts and constantly placed us in harm’s way! I always wanted to know what made people do such hurtful things, stupid things, selfish things, inconsiderate things, hateful things, etc. Well, since the mind is such a compelling environment not set up to make company comfortable I had to compromise. I really don’t care how many psych docs examine a patient many times you get what they want you to understand and no more. I’m gonna try something different since I’m pretty sure the way my day be going, I have the words “PSYCHIATRIST” written on my forhead… lol I swear people just mouth vomit ever bad thing that’s happened to them & yes, I do listen.

“Dissecting the struggle” will mainly be helpful to the younger generation of ladies out here lost by telling them our story. Some young ladies out here are alone with no parents, are single parents, emotional, fed up already, and ready to take their lives. They are not alone, I just want them to know this. We make mistakes, we live, we learn, we educate ourselves, we experience things we have a hard time explaining. Why sit back & watch? If I can tell my stories to help one young lady avoid the consequences I made because nobody was there to tell me otherwise, well I’ll rest better at night.

So much bad going on I want people to know there are still good people who want to see others legitimately happy no strings attached.

Please if you have a story to share, or know of someone who would like to be a part of this let me know!! I will be doing a lot of community type interviews such as food banks, nursing homes, and shelters… “how has a struggle affected you & how did you overcome it?” This will be my main theme that I’ll focus on, my niche “the struggle.”😩

I really want to interview women who worked hard & now own businesses as well!! Our younger generation need to know it’s possible & how they can get started while they still have patience.

I will also buy homeless people on the corner meals to sit with me & tell their story. I will interview students who dropped outta school, pregnant teens, drug addicts, abusive kids, ungrateful kids, those on welfare, those with jobs struggling, etc. The point is, I will interview those who struggle on a daily basis yet they don’t give up, we may laugh & we may cry but in the end we will dissect every struggle and figure out just where we went wrong and then make it right!!! #bethechangeyouwanttosee

I’m excited to be doing my very first podcast I thank The Most High for sending me on this journey and since I know I’m protected this chic will enjoy the ride😎

My very first interview will be with a dear friend of mine who has 2 sweet boys a year apart but been through so much, so young. When I first met her she had so much anger in her heart and now, well let’s just say “time truly heals old wounds.” Today she’s working, going to school, and her sons are improving with their anger and in their spirit, her life is her 2 boys and it shows, and she is theirs💜💋 Coming this month to a YouTube near you…


Kidorable’s Birthday club is free to join!


Do you know what a birthday club is? A birthday club is a club you join for free and they remind you how very special you are to them every year.

Join Kidorable’s Birthday Club this year and receive a birthday surprise on your next birthday! Even if you don’t make a purchase, you still will receive a gift on your birthday. Did someone say free?

They had me at free yall…head on over & get your little one signed up today parents. Kids ask your parents before joining.

Kidorable is a great place to shop😊

10 reasons you struggle to keep New Years Resolutions…


New Year’s resolutions are simply brain teasers!

New Years Resolutions are brain teasers

Struggling every year to keep your New Years Resolution? What exactly is a New Year’s Resolution to you? I like to think it’s a promise to oneself to improve their lives in one way or another for the new year.

Don’t believe the hype people

My issue with it is it’s really a trick we play on the brain, not so much a resolution at all. Mind over matter, right? We tell ourselves we want to change for the better, yet we also plan a day in the future to do it on. The brain just does not work that way.

Change today not tomorrow

If you really want to act on a desire or thought you must do it when you’re the most motivated. How do you know if you’re the most motivated? The most motivated you will every be about something is at the time of excitement. The first initial thought. Well if you think it you can achieve it, right?

Thinking about the way the human brain works…

At the moment your mind is telling you to lose weight for example that is when you should start creating a plan and putting it into action. They say it takes about 30 days to break a habit or make a habit routine. Why would you wait until you are no longer motivated such as next week or next year? Why would you allow the brain to go on to its next thought without acting on the thought before?

What happens psychologically speaking is…

Your body falls back into the normal routine you have set for yourself prior to your great idea to change. When the New Year comes your motivation is just zapped, you waited way too long. Your mind forgot how very important your thoughts at the time were to you.

About that word…change

Change tends to stay around much longer when we are naturally more motivated & when the change is not intimidating. Starting with small goals while working up to one big goal is the way to change. The failure to act right away can mean the difference between you walking to your destination vs you being dragged against your will.

What I am struggling to say is…

Normally when you want to do something and your motivation is all the way there you don’t need any help. Once you wait you will need someone to pretty much drag you kicking and screaming to just complete one small step towards your every goal.

Too much thinking and not so much doing is the road to failure and I don’t think you want to go that way. It is what it is, we are just so busy doing things we don’t want to do, spending time with people we don’t want to be around, and helping others way more than we help ourselves. You guessed it, it’s called work. Many of us have to prepare ourselves to go out in the world and work a job that we don’t like at all, that preoccupies our time.

This year & every year after, ditch the resolution and just start. Let’s agree a New Year’s Resolution is an excuse to not start something right away. A form of procrastination at it’s best! For example “Ill pay you back when I get my income tax check” you know how people say that just to make you feel better, then they get that income tax check and forget you existed.

Ten reasons many people struggle to keep New Years Resolutions

  • Just thinking about the resolution is too stressful
  • Some people are seriously afraid of failure
  • You have not tried the resolution before so you have self-doubt
  • The resolution is too unrealistic
  • Many people are surrounded by negative unsupportive people
  • You need a partner to encourage and motivate you
  • Some just don’t follow through & give up way too easy
  • Realizing you can’t commit to the time required
  • Not enough money is a huge one
  • Not having a plan put into place is a major fail

Struggling to stay motivated?

Please leave a comment, what are your thoughts?

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