The reason your constantly yelling at your kids.


Back to your school days…👌🏽

Do you remember being in middle school trying to keep up with your homework? Your trying to get to class on time by using your daily schedule list. Then the grades gotta be good.😩 Remember the teachers would cram a lot of info in your brain in such a short amount of time. Remember you would attempt to use your free time in study hall to finish homework so you had somewhat of a social life outside the school.😒

Think about it…

We had teachers, bell’s, and a time clock to keep us on task, yet still some of us struggled.🤷🏾‍♀️ Many people were in a school mixed with people from different backgrounds teachers included. This in itself makes it hard sometimes to focus on what your supposed to be doing due to miscommunication.

Tired of repeating yourself everyday?

We forget kids have short attention spans & selective hearing.🙄 I have my children stick to a steady schedule and it makes all our lives easier! They need to have something to refer to in order to remember everything we ask them to do daily, so annoying I know.

I can’t lie though I have a daily to do list at all times because I would never remember everything. No more repeating myself and no more getting angry because the kids forgot simple tasks you’ve drilled in their heads a million bazillion times for years…smh

Interior Design is just my thing!

One day I’m just sitting there looking at the mess my daughters left in the bathroom!😳 I thought to myself enough is enough period. I refuse to live my life in chaos while my little penny pinchers just go about there what in the section 8 and hurricane Katrina business!

I went to my local dollar store and purchased 6 picture frames. You can also get real crafty & do a design around the frame. *super cute*

I went home & typed up a to do list for the bedrooms, bathrooms, and kitchen. This is different from chores these are just the basic commen scense stuff they always saying they forgot to do.🤬

My list consisted of….


  • Wash hands after using the bathroom, yes you “I include there names”
  • Clean tub after showering/bathing “I don’t care if you don’t see the dirt, I do!”
  • Brush your teeth/floss/mouthwash/lotion/deodorant/ vasaline on those crusty lips🤦🏾‍♀️ & if you took it out then put it back.
  • Clean toilet seat with wipes after every use, don’t flush put them in the trash
  • Speaking of trash make sure it’s not overflowing if so change it!
  • Clean out the sink when your done.
  • Wash the mirror if you can’t hold the toothpaste in your mouth so it’s not splattering…you did it so you clean it.
  • Fix all rugs
  • Make sure the toilet paper holder has toilet paper & it’s on the roller and not the sink.
  • Girls take the broom & sweep if you got hair everywhere then use a clean wipe
  • Left any fingerprints on my wall? Look around & get it off if you see it.

Mommy loves you thanks for cleaning up your mess now take one final glance just to be sure you didn’t leave any messes for me to clean…xoxoxo

Repeat then frame them…

Tailor your lists to your life & mention the child you know does certain things, they will be more accepting of being careful. Nobody wants called out whether inside the house or outside. You can also do chore lists this way if everybody keeps their same chores daily or you can switch photo frames to switch it up for them. The chore frame would go in each child’s room hung up on the wall then they can’t say “I forgot” “you didn’t tell me to do that” blah blah blah🙄


Additional Ideas😏


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Free summer time fun with the kiddos!


Schools out….please help me!

I know the struggle they follow you everywhere and complain about how bored they are. I could not imagine only having one child and having to entertain them! I have four and they teach each other, play together, and protect each other.

Sometimes in the summer people want to have fun but just don’t have the financial stability. I have created a list of all the fun things my kids and I have been doing since they were really young. Electronics are scrambling fragile brains like eggs so put it away and take out your time & imagination.

  • take a bike ride with your child teach them to follow signs
  • call a relative and plan a picnic at the park
  • have a toy car wash
  • water play outside in the yard or at the park
  • play “I spy”
  • play “mother may I?”
  • practice writing with your child or have them write a story
  • put on some music an color with your child
  • check out the library and all their summer events
  • take a nature walk/hike
  • blow bubbles
  • fly a kite on a windy day
  • enjoy arts and crafts, get creative using old magazine pictures
  • donate old toys and books to charity
  • enjoy a camp out in the backyard
  • jump rope
  • hopscotch
  • play tic tac toe
  • bake/lemonade sale
  • play board games
  • make slime
  • make a no bake dessert
  • karaoke
  • write a letter to someone special in another state
  • knit/crochet
  • stargazing
  • be creative with your nails and hair with what you have at home (pamper day)
  • take a bubble bath with a bathing suit (you & the kids or just the kids)
  • clean out dresser drawers
  • repaint old wood (this can be made fun!)
  • do a puzzle
  • read
  • practice dance moves
  • go fishing
  • play hide n’ seek
  • make a fort
  • go to the beach make a sandcastle
  • play dodge ball
  • throw a frisbee
  • make a funny video
  • visit a new park every day for a week
  • visit the school playground
  • plant something (tree, seeds, time capsule)
  • visit a local museum
  • feed the birds/ducks
  • visit a local farm
  • take a photo walk
  • play pictionary
  • cooking lessons parent/child
  • teach your child to save money
  • paint rocks
  • family movie night (watch old movies)
  • plan a family slumber party
  • tell each other made up stories

Now go enjoy your kiddos while you can, soon you wont be able to squeeze a kiss out of them…


5 purchases to help your daughter survive the *female curse*🙌🏾


The bloody curse…

So these kids are getting periods at such a young age now. I always dreaded having to talk to my girls about periods. I use to think I hope she cleaned herself well, I hope she dont smell, will she end up as Kevin Hart said with “bloody butt”!

All jokes aside its scary having a child handle a women’s curse. A curse that involves blood, pads, emotional outbursts, stained panties, stained sheets, a period.


Have you seen the pre period preparedness sets & after? I will say these little investments saved me many days of irritation and anger… lol

I think she’s been through enough so why not get her a confidence boosting gift.💝 We have both been a young girl who’s childhood seemed over because their “period” has started.😒 This kit contains everything a young lady needs to survive the beginning stages of puberty.

Does your child get horrible cramps that you wish you could take away? The hardest thing as a parent is watching your child suffer and feel so helpless!


An awful situation where one wants to ball up, cry, & die!😭😭

Cramps are evil & should be destroyed by ways of Livia invisible rays… ijs I know its costly but my daughters had hers 5 years and we have replaced the pads 6 times. I will just say it was worth every penny to end her suffering!

About the product

  • ✅ MENSTRUAL CRAMP RELIEF – Works (fast) to stop acute menstrual pain and menstrual cramps during menstrual flow. Relieves cramps, bloating, fatigue, backache, and headache! Natural Cycle Relief combines powerful & essential solution. Pills, lotions, and drops not needed. Say goodbye to that menstruation cup and massagers!
  • ✅ IMMEDIATE EFFECTIVE SMART TREATMENT – Using two electrodes that transmit electric pulses to your lower abdominal area, Livia blocks the cramps. It’s simple and has no side effects. You just continue your everyday activities pain-free! Those pills take a long time to work! Livia adjusts automatically to your cramps volume and eliminates the pain.
  • ✅ SAFE AND PROVEN – Unlike most PMS relief supplements & Pills for women, MyLivia is the new NATURAL period painkiller – You get fast, effective results without having to worry about potential side effects or quality. Ultra-thin design conforms to your lower abdomen for discreet comfort wherever you go!
  • ✅ USING LIVIA IS SO EASY – Clip it on, Turm it on, Feel the relief and Get Going. No complications, No confusions, and no difficulties! You can take your Livia device anywhere so nothing will surprise you again. Leave freely. Period.
  • ✅ FULL KIT – The Livia kit includes everything you need to stop period pains right in their tracks. In the Livia kit, you’ll find: Livia Device, Livia Classic Cover, Livia USB Charging cable, Livia Travel Case, Livia Flower Pads, 3 Months Supply of Gel Pads AND 60 days money back guarantee!

The Talk…

Are you having a hard time having the talk with your child? I completely understand how hard it can be for some people they get all red in the face…just embarrassed.🤷🏾‍♀️ I know its their kid but its still a touchy subject for many moms and more importantly dads.😳

The special book of all about girls…my daughter had no unanswered questions🙌🏾😊

Period panties…Nooooooo👀😬

Period panties are the real MVP’s they get used, abused, stained & tossed out but still protect us when it counts.😂 So when I was younger we just used our old panties as period panties but not today’s generation. They got these upgraded versions that prevent embarrassments and having to change schools. 💃🏾

So get this right…

  • Material: Shell fabric: 95% Cotton, 5% Spandex; Lining: 100% Cotton, Soft & Strong elasticity & Easy to dry.
  • Pack of 4, Middle waist, Simple design, good workmanship. Suitable crowd: Menstrual cycle heavy flow, postpartum bleeding, fecal and urinary incontinence, postnatal recovery, weak bladder control.
  • No Leak During Menstrual Period: The underwear serves as extra protection from leaks. MUST use together with sanitary napkins, tampons, pantyliners, menstrual cups, maternity pads or incontinence pads. The underwear protects user if there is an overflow from the pad. The protective period panty has a water-resistant lining from the gusset all the way to the waistline to prevent any unexpected leakage.😊

“Period Panties” are there government name🙄

The survival preparedness kit…❣

Ever been in school and that dreaded curse showed up uninvited & unexpected!🤬 Always have a “period kit” close by.

Do not let that be your baby girl. Some girls are comfortable carrying purses others not so much. Your child should have pads in the office, purse, backpack, car…ect. I swear theres no invite it just shows up and ruins all the fun…ugh We know how embarrassing accidents can be mentally & very damaging to ones “ego”.

People see a stain and think or shout *ewwwww* instead of politely pulling the person to the side letting them know.😔 I can honestly say I’ve never experienced such embarrassment but I’m also always prepared! I teach my girls the same thing, I even go through scenarios of embarrassing things that can happen.

Be sure you and your child know how to use them…👉🏾

8 Facts: Are Feminine Wipes Good For You?

Attitude, Tears, & Emotions Repellant🙌🏾

I’m all about taming the cray cray without pills and side effects so check this out…works on mine everytime!😍

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Essential oil for pms

  • TOP QUALITY, 100% NATURAL essential oil blend of clary sage, lavender, geranium and peppermint. Mimics and balances women’s hormones to ease PMS symptoms.
  • GENTLE REPRIEVE. Calm your agitated, irritated, menstruating, period-crampy self, soothe aches and feel relaxed, stress-free, back to normal in no time.
  • EASY HELP IN A CONVENIENT BOTTLE. All oils premixed and diluted with almond oil so it’s hassle-free for you. Simply roll on as PMS symptoms start. Great for travel and on the go.
  • ZAP THOSE HORMONES WITH CONFIDENCE thanks to our 100% money-back guarantee. Enjoy the high quality of this blend.
  • SOOTHE IT, SISTER, WE HAVE YOUR HEALTHY BACK! . Now, we are finally seeing the results of studies showing what these civilizations already knew: that essential oils have powerful, therapeutic benefits. And they are all natural! At least, if they are pure like Aromata’s oils. In fact, none of our oils contain preservatives, artificial colors or dyes, parabens, synthetics. They are not tested on animals.

Sanitary Disposal Bags…Don’t get caught slipping. NOBODY should know (unless you tell them) your on your period except you!

A period can sound like a gory scene to a child…Don’t let it come true mom❣

Gory Scene
My disclosure statement all your supports so much appreciated…xoxo

Water Bottles increase enthusiasm & excitement in kids which encourages fluid intake💧


It’s summer time feeling like what I like to say “hell on earth”!

I’m so hot…

I have kids and we like to do lots of outdoor activities!

I seriously get tired of hearing “I’m thirsty”, “I’m hungry”, “I’m tired

Everything’s an argument or fight…#thestruggle

Kids love important things that belong to them!

My eight year old daughter actually drinks more water because she has her own cooltastic water bottle.

Kids won’t normally ask for a water break yet we know how important it is for them.

Allow your child to pick a water bottle they like but make it clear “no juice” strictly water!

Once schools open up again they will request parents purchase a water bottle for their child because kids are getting UTI’s.

More info on UTI’s here…

Take the water bottle on every trip that requires you to leave the home with your child. This will show your child the importance of always drinking water on the go. Parents you can now take the guesswork out of forcing water in the summer.

I try to make things easier for us parents.

Fill the bottle up then once it’s empty do it again, an easy way to monitor!

Water is so beneficial to happy healthy kids you should read more about it.

Check out this informative article💧

Amazon has a huge selection of water bottles the entire family will love!! No need to have to put on a mask and stand in line at the store. I was able to purchase expensive ones for my boyfriend & I and reasonably priced ones such as this for my kids. My daughter loves it because it is purple and it came with a cleaning wand for the straw.

As always your welcome! Xoxo

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