Kids need rules, directions & responsibilities🤷🏾‍♀️


I know I can most likely speak for 80% of parents when I say laundry is evil! 

  • Petty
  • Vindictive 
  • Neverending
  • Trying 
  • Boring
  • Frustrating
  • Anxiety trigger
  • Drug/Alcohol trigger
  • Ongoing like the *Energizer Bunny*😭😭

We need to hire employees…..

Calling everybody in the house who don’t pay bills…


Gather up your kids who wear clothes too. Let’s play “clean, dry, & fold”. 

Everything’s more exciting as a game!






You know the old saying *work smarter not harder* Yes that goes for parenting too…..

Take some of your small laundry tasks and help your child excell in each while conquiring that parent goal of *raising independent adults*…no age limit required!


Suggestions for tasks…

*ninja clothes separator* or (color, fabric, material) *explain why we sort laundry…so we don’t ruin our clothing* kids need to know why they’re doing things or they will do them their way when your not watching👀



  • Laundry measure & pour *designee* 


  • Pick someone to put laundry in the washing machine after the *ninja clothes separator* is finished


  • Pick someone else if possible to put laundry in the dryer after the washers done with a fabric sheet…*explain why* or they will not use them when you’re not watching😎


  • Allow each child the opportunity to pick through the dried clothes to find all their hidden clean clothes *treasure*


  • Allow each child to fold & put away their own folded laundry treasure with their very own *treasure basket* 😂


  • Give rewards for not having to fix hangers, drawers, etc from *misplaced laundry* 😱 or as I call them #lazykids🤦🏽‍♀️


Parents they’re sneaky & you know it! Don’t trust them🙌🏾 they will after all that hard work throw it behind the bed, on the closet floor, stuff it in drawers…etc. *CHECK*

Many may not even care but as a mom of 4, I had to take charge. Everything should have its *own* home to ensure organization & cleanliness for the both of you.

Ever wake up to “mom” where are my socks, “mom” wheres my shoes? “mom” I have no clean underwear/panties/boxers/briefs….get it?


I personally have a place for everything because if you dont…they surely will drive you insane!

  • School shirts & pants…hung up in the closet. Two pair of pants per hanger (prevents breaking) but get wild with the leggings.
  • All panties, socks, and undershirts in one drawer.
  • Another drawer for pajamas & play clothes.
  • We also have a coat & shoe closet all organized…no need to search & mess up in the process.
  • In my girl’s room, they have a coathanger and that’s where they keep shaw’s, light jackets, pullovers, etc (light wear/delicates)


Your kids aren’t going to volunteer to help you clean unless you make it fun!

Encourage them and be very supportive!

Like men, you have to constantly “stroke their ego”..ijs lol

Don’t constantly tell them it’s not right because they’ll become discouraged.

Just be patient and show them why it’s not right in your eyes (don’t expect them to be O.C.D.)


Enjoy laundry with your children from now on!


Maybe one day you’ll be able to say what you been wanting to say for years…


“Family Night” & “The Struggle”….


I’M *JUST* going to *DIVE* right into this!

Family night with your kids is much-needed after a long stressful week of working the 9-5 life.

  • Some are working and going to school.
  • Others are working, going to school, and have to come home and compensate for an absent parent. (That is my category right there)...😫

Parenting is a loopy, curvy, swervvy road that never ends….ever!

I would have to say “your lil broke best friends are leeches as well”…lol

The other night we were having a family night and O.M.G everyone was hungry!!! I then realized I forgot to take out dinner…😟😬

Boy was I gonna be jumped by four hungry hippos!!!! 😭😭😭

Us good parents have mastered the art of multitasking.😉

I had to be quick on my feet and needed something in my budget…..well low and behold, I discovered Door Dash🙏🏾

We can order takeout that’s not pizza😯 Door Dash saved my life😂😂😂🙌

Get door dash and relax tonight!

You should try DoorDash…. its the best way to get delivery from your favorite restaurants without breaking the bank. Say you enjoy not having to cook, just pay $9.99/month and your delivery fee is waived!

*Let me clarify that*… if your orders are over $15 you get *free delivery*. and in my home they always are.


Since I am a *Struggle Queen*, I take advantage of *referral programs* and my kids enjoy getting to pick a meal of their choice once a week for free!

No need to try to impress them with being ghetto fabulous (living beyond your means) if they are humble truly grateful kids this will excite them beyond words!

Get $10 off your first order over $10 when you first sign up with

my personal link. 😍😏

*Ill feed my kids* and you can *feed your kids* by you and me teaming up with other single parents to get the job done!

Share this post and get the word out.

Anybody can do this but single parents sometimes struggle to provide so please end this struggle for each and every one of them.

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I’m personally watching what I consume so I order a lot of salads (many choices to choose from)…*no dressing* because the extra calories aren’t worth the time I put in at the gym….sorry!

*See so just because fast foods an option doesn’t mean you pick it*… 


*Make your own healthy dressing to put on your free salad*

Got the $9.99 one free thanks to those who have used my referral link😏 Thank you!

This Struggle👑Queen ain’t too proud to beg” for my kids that is”!🤷🏾‍♀️

*A closed mouth don’t get fed…*literally*💯

Can’t put food in there… like that!

Team up, focus on your needs and be the change you want to see in others…

*Parents, we have to stick together….it’s those kids against us!!!

*United we stand divided we fall*…lol😟🤦🏾‍♀️😎

Enjoy your meal on me with no cleanup…then pay it forward by sharing this post around the world.

Get your good deed in for today… xoxo *If it was up to me childhood hunger wouldn’t exist!!! Sadly it’s not… it’s up to “us” I need to know the feeling of hungry kids upsets you just as well as me.

Let us keep the cycle going until we no longer see a starving child!

Share, Share, Share this post around the word so all can take advantage of free food and drinks. Once your accounts created send me a message via messenger with your special link. I will order using your link & once again we’ll both benefit!🙌🏾

ENJOY A *happy* *pickyless* day with the kiddos along with a *complaint free* *I’m hungry whining* evening!!!

Door Dash Food Delivery Service

Get you some food right here!xoxoxo

PS. You can become a driver if you need to bring in some extra dollar bills for those kiddos… “We do what we got to in order to get to where we want to be”

*Our children depend on us and for that, we can’t let them down*

This is happening right here in America!

Join Robinhood and we’ll both get a free stock👀


I do not think so “Potty mouth Paula”



My baby girl is grown!!



I have a daughter who just turned 20 in February. My baby girl is an absolute rider and always has been! Raising girls is like getting a bad haircut….you’ll mostly cry and at times pure anger will consume your soul. Most importantly the upkeep and maintenance will involve a bunch of T.L.C. and patience. Watching your hair growth will be so exciting but you’re going to have to wear styles not always as flattering as you would like.  

Fast forward from birth to last night…..


Three of my daughters’ close friends from childhood came over to stay the night…..keep in mind nobody likes staying at my house. I do not run the teen fun farm and if anything it’s the complete opposite for two major reasons…


  • I don’t like to hear the grown conversations our future generations of women are talking about!
  • I refuse to clean up after grown women and they are messy yall!


These young girls went to her room, closed the door, and then had the audacity to proceed with a story that involved cursing as the fluent language of choice!


Do you know my mom would have tied my tongue into multiple knots!



Are yall in there cursing because you can be grown all day outside but not up in here…


I’m sorry Miss Shamara

Me again throwing out some food for though…..

What type of man do you think you’ll attract talking like that?




Mothers of this Future Generation of  Women:


Please don’t allow your children to disrespect your home once they are grown.

The respect they had growing up should never leave and the fear should never die if you ever had it to begin with. As her mother, you are the top head honcho in charge of the Jungle while the kings away….

I will attack you…


My daughter kept telling them they would not be welcome over anymore if they don’t watch their mouth!

They sure didn’t hear her talking this way in my home nor have they ever!


Don’t get it twisted I ain’t dumb, deaf, or blind. I know my daughter curses but she respects me enough to not do it in my presence purposely.


I do correct her if she slips up (dealing with life) but her reaction is to apologize immediately thereafter.

Sorry Mom


Once you stop correcting them they will think they are more grown than you and everything you taught them is out the window…..


A major issue with this generation of young men and women!


NEVER STOP CORRECTING…..and they should never stop “Respecting”!

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