Negative Energy will feed on your soul until it’s completely destroyed!


Trust nobody & watch everybody👀

Ever feel like you been hurt by the people who swore to love & protect you? Negative energy is much more common to encounter than positive, sad I know.  Kinda like police brutality on innocent lives. People of color don’t like calling the police, being they ain’t really rooting for us. I don’t call my family because they ain’t rooting for me the way I do for them. Those closest to you are the ones who are able to hurt you the most. Betrail is hurtful, embarrasing, and down right wrong nomatter who it comes from.

Family & friends be disguised as snakes and rats these days…

You need them the most, always been there for them, pray for them every night yet they don’t pick up when you call. You try to stay positive but the negative energy they direct your way is to strong. You see they just went on a shopping spree as it’s all over Facebook yet you just asked for some serious financial help.  Instead, they talk down on you to the rest of the family. Life happens to the best of us and when it does you expect those you love and trust to be a positive influence.

I’ll be the first to tell you it is an extremelly gut-wrenching feeling! Good thing my mom hurt me before anybody else could so I got that bounce back!  I also forgive them to allow myself to heal but will always remember that negative mentality they showed me everyday. I tell them to keep that same energy as I enjoy my blessings…period!

My brother and my kids are the only people I know who wouldn’t intentionally hurt me. You see they watched me first hand become one with the struggle. They also had front row seats as I sacrificed & endured so much pain just to see them smile.

Don’t blame the struggle…

So again, the struggle didn’t make me cold those people who turned on me did, don’t get your feelings twisted. Like I always say “the struggle love everybody” it’s that fake love that’ll mess your mind up if you allow it to. Negative energy is out here causing people to hate,  be envious, steal, cheat, etc. Today I embrace my struggles they made me aware, strong, and an overachiever. I believe nothing people tell me and trust no man. I do my own research and trusting only myself has gotten me a further distance than anybody I ever met has. When you find what works for you and has helped you reach your goals, stick with it.

This is why I’m here to let you know you don’t need them, blood or not if they’re stressing you best believe its depressing you! Move past it and love them from a distance.

#selflove over all love❣

Feeling “used” lately?

Life already shoots its shots so miss me with your bs…🙄




Stop the hate…🤛🏽

I see people out here to weak or afraid to speak up for themselves. I have always been anti bullying but that’s me. Grown ups are being bullies, kids, the government, teachers etc. Enough is enough it gets you absolutely nowhere but miserable!

Note 2 Self…✔


Be the love of your life…🥰

Love the person who stares back at you in the mirror. Give yourself a chance. See if you don’t love yourself you open up a vulnerable state of doubt that shadows you day in & out.

Doubt leaves room for abuse, hatred, torture, depression, sickness, disease and then death. Why would you want that for yourself? You don’t you just don’t know how to be happy. I understand it wasn’t a part of your upbringing. 😔 This is why the cycle has to stop with you❣

Listen up…I’m here to tell you today you are very important to not only yourself but those around you. Life would be an empty soul without all the love you give. Your so smart & highly favored. Kids are counting on you to be the change they need to see. You can do anything as long as you invest in yourself. Do your hair, nails, makeup…take a sexy lavish peaceful bath! Just do us both a favor make sure it’s for you.


Write down 3 goals you want to complete by next year. Next write down 3 steps to reach those goals. After that write down 5 things you love about yourself. Next 5 things you’d love to change (without surgery). Take the things you love and accelerate them to fix the things you would like to change. Everything you write should be to better yourself as a person.

Everyday from here on out you take an hour out your day for “me” time. Loving ones self isn’t selfish its neccessary! Just like you fit in work to make money to care for others you fit in that “me” time…💞

I’m working on you being able to wear your daily reminders💘 #onedayatatime

Please feel free to comment below I would love to hear your thoughts on self love!

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